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Learning Maths Naturally

"How do children, especially teenagers learn maths naturally. I see how we use maths in daily life, but how do we learn these skills without texts?" Luci

Beverley answered:

What we do in daily life determines what maths we use and learn. The more we use our mathematical abilities the more we learn! If our lives are rich in opportunities to think mathematically, logically, rationally, recognise and use the patterns that are all about us every day; if we use our brains to calculate, and work out how to calculate mostly by thinking about how to do it, testing and trying out methods we dream up...

All this adds up to learning maths naturally and it is surprising how much we can learn without the help of others. Remember, once upon a time there were no books and that humanity came a long way without them!

Most of the maths we use is every day maths... those that use 'higher' maths are naturally drawn to learning those skills - originally from mentors and those they admired and wished to emulate, or as apprentices (working on the job, figuring out stuff because of a real need, rather than a 'curriculum' requirement. A text book can be a most suitable tutor. Natural learners use the tools they need to reach the goals they themselves set.

A busy life with lots to do, with a focus on practical projects and production basically ensures the development of natural maths skills. Most children will never become mathematicians, just like some children won't become authors or orators. We all need the basics though. Ask yourself what those basics are and concentrate on helping your children achieve mathematical proficiency in those areas through every day activities and then, when they reach the teenage years let them take their own learning on from there.

But exactly how to children learn maths skills naturally without text books - what does the process of learning look like? We all know our children seem to simply 'pick up' basic maths just from every day activities, but what goes on in their heads. I think it has a lot to do with recognising, manipulating and using patterns, but I'm no expert and I'm curious. What do other people think? Is it just a matter or leading a busy productive life which is what I keep telling people, or is there more to it than that?

From Grace:

"Our children are in their teens. I believe that they learned the basic maths skills when they were young, just through their curiosity and our lifestyle. As our eldest approached her teen years, she began comparing herself to others and felt that she wasn't doing enough maths study. Because she wasn't doing maths exercises every day I could see that she wasn't very confident in her skills and she believed that because she wasn't doing as much bookwork as her schooled friends, then she mustn't be doing enough. Also, none of the children were good with quick recall of number facts (Although they were each able to calculate what they need to know, it just wasn't automatic.)

"What did we do about it?

"We bought a workbook called "New Wave Mentals", published by R.I.C Publications. The children each chose a level they were comfortable with. It provided them with a daily set of 20 exercises, taking about ten minutes to complete. They each liked it and I could see that they were becoming more confident about their skills. The eldest child also went on to study "Teach Your Children Tables" by Bill Handley. As a family we also looked into Vedic Maths. This was interesting and tied in with what Bill Handley actually presented in his book but it didn't give us a lot of practical help. It was more inspirational really.

"In our life nowadays the children are needing to calculate interest rates; calculate area; doubling and halving of fractions when they are cooking or mixing up two stroke fuel; measuring and calculating how much fabric to buy; measuring time taken to travel to places; measuring speed and so on. They are able to do all of these things in their head. They're not super fast at it - this kind of thinking is not one of their greater strengths - but they are still able to do it and come up with an accurate answer. They're problem solving skills are very good.

"Sometimes Dad gets a little worried that they are not as fast at calculating things as he thinks they should be - at other times he is impressed by what they are able to do! The long and short of it is that we are not outstanding in everything we do but we are really good where it matters most. One thing I am certain of is: They will be able to manage their own monies and other needs requiring mathematical skill when they are living away from the family. It all depends on your own level of comfort and what level of proficiency the teenage child is comfortable with."

Maria Droujkova of Natural Maths likens learning mathematical skills to the way children learn how to speak. Learning to speak is:

"... one of the most advanced, complex, psychologically involved learning tasks humans ever experience in their lives. It is more complicated than any graduate level course you will ever take. Yet the success of people attempting this learning task is almost universal. People e ngage in this learning task early in their lives, when they have no prior learning experiences. The task is learning to speak. How is this powerful learning achieved? The features of learning to speak are parts of my definition of "natural":

  • A community of practice: the learner is a part of a group of people actively using the skill all the time.
  • Usefulness: the skill is essential for current life needs.
  • Beauty and fun: the skill supports aesthetic and playful activities (the arts and the games).
  • Learners are creators: from the very beginning, the skill supports learners in creating something of their own (sounds, words, sentences, stories).
  • Infinite richness and complexity: learners can observe masters of the skill, past and present, and their masterpieces, and aspire to reach and surpass such mastery .

Math can be like that: a part of our native language."

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