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We began educating our three children in 1985, when our eldest was aged five years. In truth, we had helped them learn what they need to learn as they grew and explored and discovered this amazing world since the moment they were born. I am a passionate advocate of allowing children to learn unhindered by unnecessary stress and competition, meeting developmental needs in ways that suit their individual learning styles and preferences. Ours was a homeschooling, unschooling and natural learning family! There are hundreds of articles on this site to help you build confidence as a home educating family. I hope that your home educating adventure is as satisfying as ours was!
Reading for Life: Te Lost Arts of Making and Mending
© Beverley Paine, 2004
In the homeschool we provide plenty of opportunity to develop craft skills through exciting projects that captivate the children's imagination or provide suitable props for their many games. There's a more practical side to developing craft and technology skills though; we're preparing our children to be self-reliant, teaching them self-sufficiency and conservation skills that will save valuable resources and help them to become independent and useful members of society.
There are oodles of craft books full of wonderful activities that teach, step by step, how to make anything from a woollen scarf to a kitchen sideboard, to a robot carrying a snack tray! Find books or kits that excite and interest your child, or you. When you are engaged in craft or technological projects, even if you don't involve your children, you are modelling valued life-skills. In time they will emulate your example, even if they aren't interested at this stage. Always invite them to join in, but don't feel the need to coerce or bribe them. Get involved in their projects too, with real enthusiasm, in whatever way you can, without taking over completely!
If you're like me, you read the packaging and instructions to just about everything you buy. A long time ago I grew tired of watching other people struggle to put together something new, give up in frustration when they hit a snag, then dig out the directions. I've always been a great believer in 'reading the instructions first'. I love instructions. It's a quick and easy way to learn new skills. Sometimes I need to ask about a term or find a definition for new words in the dictionary. I can't imagine a home without one, two or three dictionaries of different sizes scattered throughout the house or shed!
We have books that show us how to build a garden wall that won't fall over, how to repair the plumbing under the kitchen sink, how to change a light bulb. We have books that show us how to crochet, knit, sew and embroider. We have building books, gardening books, cooking books, home repair books, and books that show us how to build up, identify and label elaborate collections. We also have books that show us how to solve problems on the computer, how to use the programs, how to surf the Internet and find instructions on how to do just about anything we'd ever want, or need, to do!
I know that I am continuously demonstrating that I am reader and that the written word is an integral and powerful tool in my life. My children want to become readers to be able to access the information they need to do what they want, as well as an enjoyable past time.
We don't need to invent reading-related jobs or chores around the house or copy contrived classroom antics to encourage children to read. On those long days when there doesn't seem much to do and we're all bored with what we've been doing it's time to dust off some of the jobs we never get around to doing. Here are some reading-rich examples of activities that you can share with your children:
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